I think it’s fair to say that we’ve all been in situations where we feel at a loss for what to do.  Maybe you’ve faced some big impending decision on the horizon, or felt like you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place.  I’ve met with lots of folks who have brought these kinds of issues into the counselling room, many of whom started off hoping for some expert advice.  I try to offer something much more substantial and sustainable than easy answers to people’s problems.